8 stays Out! So you've tried everything to come together the man of your dreams--online services, personal ads, etc--but haven't had succes Men in major cities onward the East and West coasts can now sign up for the newest dating trend: 8 stays Out (www.8guysout.com). The service matches eight single men with similar interests for casual dinner parties. "This is a way for tribe to come together, relax, and have intercourse with a meal together," company cofounder Robin Koocher says. "If anything romantic blooms then all the better."